I was talking to Suz (Susan Bratton) yesterday and admitted that I rarely ever make love without starting with an Expanded Orgasm genital massage by my husband.

Why is this a guilty confession?

THE BEST FOREPLAY EVER

Because when you first start your Expanded Orgasm practice with your partner, the “rules” are that a DO Date (another word for having an Expanded Orgasm session) should be quarantined from expectations that it will lead to further sex.

The idea about Expanded Orgasms is that it’s an opportunity for a woman to fully receive without the expectation that she reciprocates sexually. Removing that pressure to also get her man off actually increases her desire to do so.

Nobody likes to “have to.” We respond better to wanting to when we are first aroused beforehand.

The reasons for why an Expanded Orgasm date is its own contained experience is:

1) so the woman can learn to completely receive without worrying about what she has to do to earn orgasms

2) so the man can completely take control and enjoy having her lie there and come without paying him back

3) so there’s no expectation to go further, which can prevent a woman from wanting an Expanded Orgasm date because she’s not yet turned on enough to want more before the date starts

4) so she can get filled up orgasmically, because women have the ability to literally come for hours and seldom get a chance to experience that

So many women can’t let go and ride their orgasmic potential because they’re too busy THINKING (instead of just feeling) about what they have to do next. That’s not beneficial to arousal ramping.

EXPAND HER ORGASM TONIGHT
Suz and I both started out our Expanded Orgasm practices with our husbands where we would try for just a few minutes and then if we had any trouble dropping into a fully sensual body state, we could just call it quits, get up and resume our normal lives. This takes the pressure off during learning the strokes until she gets good at coming and he gets good at making her come.

But we both laughed when we realized that as champion Expanded Orgasm couples, we both liked it as the main foreplay before doing more oral and lovemaking with our lovers.

THE MAIN FOREPLAY
Time and again Suz and I have both found that before we are turned on enough to want lovemaking of any kind, having a DO Date helps get us engorged and aroused.

For both of us, like all women, it takes time to “drop in” to our bodies. It takes time to connect with our lover. It takes time to forget the cares of the world and sink into sensation.

You know the adage that a woman needs 20 minutes of foreplay to get aroused?

Well having an Expanded Orgasm session for 20 minutes — or longer depending on how hot and tasty her orgasmic delight is that day — makes any kind sex you have after the warm up so much more pleasurable for her.

Every time I skip this step of having a DO Date first, the sex is just never as satisfying for me.

I need that engorgement, I need that time to connect with my man, I need those early orgasmic contractions from the stroke patterns that are part of the Expanded Orgasm practice.

Yes, I can get turned on with kissing and with oral sex, but it’s just NOT as good as when my man strokes my pussy with the Expanded Orgasm stroke pattern.

Suz said she feels exactly the same way.

Expanded Orgasm is the #1 way to get a woman as turned on and aroused as possible prior to penetration.

SHE WILL WANT MORE INTERCOURSE

So many women say they cannot orgasm from penetration. This turns fucking into a duty rather than a desire. And then men feel like they are just using her to masturbate their penis.

If more couples took the time to do the 21 erotic play dates in the Expand Her Orgasm Tonight course, they’d have sex so much better it’s like black and white turns into all the colors of the rainbow.

There are a series of videos inside Expand Her Orgasm Tonight that show you the entire stroke pattern from start to finish:

• Getting Her In Her Body
• Engorgement
• The 3 Opening Strokes
• Continuity and The Stroke
• Adding In Your Second Hand
• Peaking for Pleasure
• Penetration with your Second Hand
• Variety
• Stroking and Adding “The Anie”
• Bringing Her Down – Ending The Date
• Bonus: Staying On Her Favorite Spot

THE DO POSITION

If you want to be in the top 1% of all lovers, knowing how to be in an Expanded Orgasm state of physical and emotional joy and connection is the path.

There is simply nothing on the market that compares to this online video training.

Dr. Patti is a fantastic teacher, an excellent writer and the way she breaks the process down into 21 dates where each date builds your knowledge together makes it easy and fun to learn together.

When you are ready to take your pleasure skills to the moon, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight is the single best program you can buy.

It’s changed my sex life for the better. It’s saved Suz’s marriage.

It makes the guy feel like an incredible stud and the woman like a sensual goddess.

If you have any questions at all about this sexual practice, let me know.

We have a money-back guarantee, so if you buy it and try it and it’s not right for your life, just let our Customer Care team know and you’ll get an immediate refund.

Grab a FREE copy of our Expanded Orgasm eBook to learn more how to get a satisfying lovemaking.

NOTE: Don’t miss the part about “Orgasmic Cross Training” below.

Herman asks, “I want to spice it up in the bedroom with my girl. What’s the best massager/vibrator on the market these days?”

VIBRATOR ADVICE

Since every woman is different, it’s best to try a few vibrators to find your favorite.

The motors in different vibrators cycle fast and buzzy to slow and deep.

There are some that are made to go inside her vagina versus others more appropriator for external clitoral stimulation.

There is also a difference between a dildo and a vibrator. Dildos are shaped like penises and don’t vibrate. Vibrators, of course, vibrate and can be shaped like penises but also come in a variety of shapes.

A lot of women like a dildo inside their vaginal canal and a vibrator on their clitoris at the same time.

Luckily, most vibrators are inexpensive enough that you can try a few to see what you like.

Sometimes women appreciate an arsenal of toys at their disposal so they can match their toy to their mood.

One thing to watch out for is deploying the vibrator too early in your sexual date. The vibe can “exhaust” her clitoris pretty quickly and then she is done having sex.

VIBRATOR FOREPLAY

Try this structure or find your own variation of it:

Give her a massage.

Engorge her vulva with your hands and tongue.

Enjoy some oral pleasuring.

Then have intercourse and use a position where she can hold the vibrator while you penetrate her.

Another fun way to integrate toys into your lovemaking would be again to warm her genitals up and get the blood flowing with oral or manual sucking, licking and rubbing and then put a dildo inside her while you play with her clitoris manually. Then add in the vibrator once she’s really writhing around.

Try penetrating her from behind while she holds the vibrator on her clitoris and gets herself off.

You can also talk sexy to her, tell her how gorgeous she is, while you’re fingering her g-area and all around inside her vagina with your fingers while holding the vibrator on her clit as you do so.

Every woman likes a different place around her clitoral area stimulated with the vibe. She will have a certain pressure that she wants — often starting light and adding pressure.

Over time, she can have multiple orgasms from this kind of slow build up.

What you don’t want to do is become reliant on the vibrator as the only or “best” way to make her come.

Getting good fingering, tongue and penis skills and having her cross train her orgasmic response will increase the ways she can orgasm.

ORGASMIC CROSS TRAINING

Sheri Winston, author of Succulent SexCraft explains orgasmic cross training in this way:

You can create new paths to arousal by doing what already works to get you turned on.

Bring yourself to medium or high arousal with the stimulation that works well and simultaneously add in the new stimulation.

Repeat the double stimulation many times. This tricks your brain into believing that both forms of stimulation produce the same response.

Then intermittently stop the old way and keep doing the new way, while imagining you are doing both. If your arousal drops, add the old way back in for a bit.

Eventually your brain won’t know the difference between the old and new way.

Every woman can have orgasms just from thinking about it, from nipple stimulation, from kissing… the sky is the limit.

Orgasmic Cross Trainer Champion.

The JimmyJane vibrator line is my personal favorite because they are known in the industry for the quality of their motors. They are more expensive, but they last for a really long time and the motors give such a nice vibe.

“When he strokes my clit, I feel God.”

What is YOUR level of orgasmic mastery, Dear?

Scroll down to find out how to travel the path to Spirit entwined together.

And first, to understand your levels of orgasmic mastery more clearly, let me ask you…

Have you ever noticed how the Japanese and the Germans are extra clever at combining meaningful words into grand concepts?
SHU HA RI

For example, schadenfreude means “harm-joy” in German.

When you laugh at someone else’s pain —like home videos of idiots getting kicked in the groin or muscle men pinned to the ground under their massive home gyms —that’s schadenfreude.

Shu Ha Ri is a Japanese martial arts concept that defines different levels of mastery.

I read about Shu Ha Ri in a cutting edge book called, “Scrum: The Art of Doing Twice the Work in Half the Time,” by Jeff Sutherland.

“In the Shu state you know all the rules and forms. You repeat them, like the steps in a dance, so your body absorbs them. You don’t deviate at all.

In the Ha state, once you’ve mastered the forms you can make innovations. Put an extra swing in your step down the dance floor.

In the Ri state you’re able to discard the forms, you’ve truly mastered the practice, and you’re able to be creative in an unhindered way, because the knowledge of the meaning of aikido or the tango is so deeply embedded in you, your every step expresses its essence.” — Jeff Sutherland

MASTERING EXPANDED ORGASM

Shu Ha Ri is easily applied to mastering the Expanded Orgasm technique.

First you learn the three opening strokes, the basic strokes, and continuity.

You also learn grounding strokes and how to bring your woman back down gracefully from her orgasmic experience.

It’s important to follow the series of Expanded Orgasm steps until you master them. That’s the Shu phase.

The structure creates the result.

The stroke techniques allow you both to learn to feel each other and begin to stretch the moment of climax out, or expand her orgasmic moments.

HA MASTERY

In the Ha state, you begin to understand what her favorite strokes are that day and what pressure and speed feels best to her in the moment: Linear, circular, horseshoe, elliptical et cetera.

That’s when you begin to get some mastery. You are working within the set of strokes define by the practice of Expanded Orgasm.

After a few months, or years, depending on how often you two have Expanded Orgasm dates, you enter the Ri state. Expanded Orgasm strokes fall away and you are essentially so tuned into each other that you are able to take over her nervous system, feel what she’s responding to and lead her through your strokes to unparalleled levels of orgasmic bliss and abundance.

FREESTYLE RI

It is in this Ri state — where you are unhindered creatively because the strokes are embedded in you — where you achieve a level of oneness, of conjoined limbic trance-state intimacy that is rapturous.

In this state of rapture, your erotic interplay spirals together like a DNA strand.

CONNECTION TO SOURCE

With practice, you enter together into the singleminded stillness where God, Gaia, Source… what ever you choose to call it… feels palpable.

You touch souls. Not just each other’s souls, but all of the living force of nature, of Spirit.

We are born alone. We die alone. But during this lifetime, if you have a path to connect to Other, through your lover… through orgasmic bliss… it is a salve for the soul like no other.

There is an interconnectedness that comes through mastering the art of orgasmic touch, through Expanded Orgasm, that is soul-nurturing.

Expanded Orgasm connects lovers together in a repeatable experience.

THE INTERPLAY OF PASSION

If you understand how meditation can reboot your nervous system and connect you with the Infinite, know that Expanded Orgasm is another parallel path to the Infinite shared with your partner.

You can sit in silent meditation by yourself or in a group.

Or you can learn orgasmic meditation with your lover and travel the path entwined together.

For my money, Expanded Orgasm is the preferred path.

If you have any questions about how learning this simple female genital stroking technique can bring you closer together and closer to God, Spirit, Source, Gaia… again, whatever you prefer to call it, email me by hitting “reply” to this email or commenting on the website at this link.

Questions About Expanded Orgasm? <=== How Is Expanded Orgasm Like Erotic Meditation? [link to blog post here]

Enter The Rapture Together.

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight (EHOT) is my online home study course that teaches you and your partner how to have an Expanded Orgasm practice together.

EHOT includes ebooks, workbooks, audio and video — including a stroke by stroke demonstration of a couple in an Expanded Orgasm date.

It’s suitable for couples to view together.

And I’ve broken down the skill sets required into 21 Sandbox Dates where you learn together to give, receive and enter the rapture of Expanded Orgasm.

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight<=== Website With Full Details (Includes 3 Free Pleasure Reports)

If you want a clitoral stroking technique that holds a woman in escalating levels of orgasmic pleasure to achieve erotic bliss, Expanded Orgasm is the path.

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“I don’t want dinner and a movie, I want you to lay me down and come me well.”

GOT SKILLS?

“Researchers have long demonstrated that sex education in any form can improve one’s sex life.”

It’s true. Watching videos to see how to masturbate and orgasm and you’ll have better sex.

And women prefer to see “real” women and couples over porn stars.

That’s why both Female Liquid Orgasm and Expand Her Orgasm Tonight have real women and men demonstrating expanded and ejaculatory orgasms.

FLO even has a special section of artistic, Goddess-style female-centric videos for the more “faint of heart” ladies.

So if you’ve been wondering what skills to learn and how best to ramp up your orgasmic pleasure potential, I heartily suggest you get both:

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight <=== 30 Minute Escalating Orgasm

Female Liquid Orgasm <=== G-Spot Squirting Female Ejaculation

Get in bed tonight and spice it up!

Sexy sex ed keeps it getting better and better.

Spice is Nice!

*A study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 90 percent of women who had difficulty reaching orgasm were able to do so more easily after receiving instruction on how to properly masturbate.

A study in Annual Review of Sex Research concluded that simply reading a book about orgasms could be more effective than psychotherapy. Emily Nagoski, a sex educator at Smith College and author of The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasm said, “Education works, and the platform through which it’s delivered doesn’t matter.

Personal Life Media’s Sex Life Satisfaction Survey — a longitudinal study from 2010 to present — shows that 67.47% of respondents prefer VIDEO Lessons as their favorite sexual learning modality.

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight <=== 30 Minute Escalating Orgasm
Female Liquid Orgasm <=== G-Spot Squirting Female Ejaculation

Excerpt from Forbidden Pleasures: Playboy December 2014

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“I squirted! Like major! Like I have never experienced! It was incredible!”

My girlfriend just texted me that she finally squirted.

For her birthday, she got a copy of Female Liquid Orgasm – an online training program that teaches women how to ejaculate squirting orgasms.

She shared it with her boyfriend and he secretly watched all of Tallulah’s techniques and surprised her with his knowledge by making her ejaculate!

Scroll down. ⬇

SOOO AMAZING FEELING!

How cool that he studied up ahead of time and just brought his new skills to the bedroom…

And it worked!

The effort.

The surprise.

The techniques.

She had been wanting to have ejaculatory orgasms for a long time.

I’m so glad her boyfriend took the initiative to study Female Liquid Orgasm and give her this incredible life-affirming experience.

And this is just the beginning.

Once you get your “squirting muscles” going, the orgasms become more intense and full-bodied.

Your abdomen gets involved as do muscles deeper in your genital system.

Though the liquid (ejaculate) is visual and tangible proof of a new orgasmic ability, there’s even more going on “under the hood.”

The impact that ejaculating has on a woman’s sexual confidence is palpable.

Her sexual responses and levels of arousal are enhanced by her confidence that yes, “she can DO this!”

Tallulah’s program, accessed online in the privacy of your own home, and downloadable to your computer, smartphone and ereader, let you watch, listen and read as you learn layer after layer of nuance.

Female Ejaculation Home Study Program <=== Get The Skills and Knowledge

Made for couples as well as men or women, there’s something inside for everyone.

There’s a world of wet pleasure out there for you.

Gushing Gasms For Girls..

The video demonstrations inside Female Liquid Orgasm are of real couples, NOT porn stars.

It’s tasteful, heart-centered and easy to understand.

This is G-Spot (we prefer to call it G-Area) pleasuring and much, much more.

Pick up a copy today and start down the path of learning how female ejaculation works.

Female Ejaculation Home Study Program <=== Get The Skills and Knowledge

Let it FLO!

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“Ew. Get those dirty hands away from me!”

“But how can I stroke you if you won’t let me touch you?”

Here’s a letter from Paul, who works with his hands for a living…

Susan,

You so good to all of us guys. After discovering your programs, now I can say I’m a master lover.

I want to give my wife ejaculatory orgasms.

She doesn’t want to because she says my hands are always dirty.

I work with my hands for a living and cannot get them completely clean and smooth.

Help!

Your Admirer,
Paul

Dear Paul,

Easy question… I have a fantastic solution for you.

Wear non-latex gloves and use organic oil when you are putting your fingers on and inside your wife’s genitals. You can give her Expanded Orgasm dates, erotic massages and the G-Area stroking that encourages most women’s bodies to ejaculate.

• Expanded Orgasm Dates
• Female Ejaculation Techniques
• Organic Coconut Oil Recommended

I’ve personally tested this myself and the gloves actually feel really nice and smooth on delicate vaginal tissue.

If I didn’t know they were there, I wouldn’t be able to tell from the feel.

A woman can relax knowing she isn’t going to get scratched or have any bacterial vaginosis or yeast infections from hands that might carry germs.

If you’re worried it’s not “romantic,” I can tell you that a masterful lover with trained stroking techniques like we teach in Expand Her Orgasm Tonight and Female Liquid Orgasm is going to thrill his woman so much she’ll put a dispenser next to the bedside table!

I suggest non-latex gloves because so many women are allergic to latex.

You can try both, if she’s not allergic, and see which feels better to her.

By the second or third time you wear gloves, it will become second nature.

So go ahead and get your hands nice and lubed up and give her tons of orgasms!

Let me know how it goes.

Put The Gloves On.

*Even when you’re doing the delicate strokes of DO date directly on her clit, up under the hood, she won’t be able to tell the gloves are on. They really feel good!

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“When I am ovulating, I need to have several orgasms a day.” — Sona

Our hormones RUN us. Especially women. Especially sexually.

That’s why it’s important to adjust your orgasmic strokes to her needs as they change from moment to moment.

EVERY DAY IS DIFFERENT

Different women (and the same woman on different dates or in different parts of the same date) display varying tolerances for friction (stroking the surface of the skin). This tolerance depends on her level of engorgement and arousal, hormone levels, and general preference.

Experiment with stroking over the skin.

First move your lubricated finger on the surface of her skin, creating some degree of friction.

Then compare that to stroking through the skin…

Where your lubricated finger moves while connected with the surface of her skin, so that the stroke is actually moving the tissue underneath her skin.

This is a subtle shift. As much intentional as physical…

Within Expand Her Orgasm Tonight the main ebook is Master Practices.

Within that report I show you not only 8 different kinds of clitoral strokes, but the pressures and speeds that give a lover the range of stroke techniques to hold his woman in an expanded orgasmic experience.

There is so much joy to learning these strokes.

With just a bit of practice, you will have a range of techniques to adjust to what her genitals want in that moment.

As you stroke her she will become more and more engorged, required minute adjustments to the strokes you’re delivering.

You will go from clumsy thumbed masher to deftly articulate digits in no time.

If your lover is not begging you to stroke her genitals on a nearly daily basis, you can both benefit greatly from the Expanded Orgasm stroking patterns.

Once you know how to bring her incredible pleasure with every touch, she will surrender herself to your pleasuring.

Women, get this program and watch and learn, then teach your men.

It is not the man’s sole responsibility to pleasure you — it is your responsibility to open to and guide them in their learning how to please you, how to come you, how to get you off.

Become A Master Stroker And A Mighty Orgasmic Goddess <=== Expand Her Orgasm Tonight Home Study Program

Get Stroking!

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight shows you how to have 30 minute long orgasms! Did you know that?

30 Minutes Or More !

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“My wife came home from her 7 week trip and to my surprise she was totally ready to try anything!!”

Dear Susan,

It was really helpful to her that I had done my homework and studied her anatomy. She love the video’s of Patti’s and she even thought the squirting looked like fun, but when we tried Tallulah’s material she just ended up sore.

So now we’ve decided to patiently go thru Dr. Patti’s program no matter how long it takes, cause it’s more about the fact that I’m putting her first and be patient with her that she’s really appreciating.

And you’re right, she wants to “pay me back” even though we haven’t hit the jackpot yet, but she’s so appreciating all the thoughtfulness and effort.

I ask your support about silicone lubricant. Could it be that she needs better lubricant just for a while to guard against soreness? I think I made the mistake of doing the opening 3 strokes too much because she said she really liked it but then I think it was her urethra hole that got sore. Could that be?

Anyway thank you very much for your help and Dr. Patti’s,
John

MY ADVICE

Hi John,

Your questions about her vaginal soreness from the Expanded Orgasm and Female Liquid Orgasm stroking techniques will help a lot of other guys. So I’m going to share your question in a Mailbag.

I’ll get to the soreness and what to do about it but first, you said you are doing the “three opening strokes” from EHOT too much and that’s what got her sore.

The three opening strokes are not meant to be repeated. That’s why their called, “opening” strokes. You do them in a series once and then move to the bread and butter “DOing stroke” on her clitoris. That’s the one that prevents her from getting sore or fatigued because of how we teach you to do it.

Now that you’ve learned your way around her pussy through your study of her anatomy, you know that the DOing stroke goes up under the hood of her clitoris and is very gentle… like a butterfly or like when you remove an eyelash from your eye.

Watch the entire “Stroke Techniques Workshop” and notice how to move from The Three Opening Strokes to the Continuity and The Stroke.

Let the goal be pleasure, not performance.

Now, why is her “urethra hole” sore?

I’m not sure if you mean she got sore where her pee comes out – the hole above the opening to her vagina and below her clitoris — or if you man her vaginal opening?

Her vaginal opening is called her introitus.

It’s a sphincter.

The skin gets abraded from friction there for many women.

If she was actually sore on her urethral opening, all the advice I’ve written below also applies…

Review the Touch for Rapture ebook <=== Free From Dr. Patti

Review the Touch For Rapture book again. Your are fine-tuning your touch techniques at this point and you’ll be able to get her off with barely any friction or pressure as your fingers master the strokes and she begins to awaken to the sensation.

Try the Touching With Feedback exercise together that is on page 22 of the Sensual Practices Workbook from EHOT.

Also review the 3 Kinds of Touches 5 minute video tutorial.

And make sure your hands are well aligned to her genitals. And use an emory board to file your nails smooth after trimming them short. Also, are YOU sitting comfortably, John? Is her Yoni in a position that doesn’t cause your wrists to break weirdly or you to strain your body?

The DOer’s position is as important and the receiver.

AS FAR AS LUBE

I personally don’t like silicone lubricant as it’s a petroleum-based chemical. I don’t think chemicals should go onto vaginal mucous membranes — at least not mine.

You are in choice, but I’d suggest you spend more time warming her up… more time engorging her… the more blood is in her vaginal tissue all around her urethral opening and her vaginal sphincter, the less the friction will bother her.

Ask yourself, are you going too fast and not warming her up as well as you could?

Re-read the section on Tumescence and Engorgement.

If you are getting her engorged enough, then the lubricating properties of organic avocado and coconut oil are all natural and usually suffice.

If she’s peri-menopausal, menopausal or post-menopausal, her hormonal balance could need bolstering with a combination of estrogen, progesterone, pregnelelone, testosterone and DHEA.

Go to an endocrinologist/gynecologist for blood tests to check her hormone range and ask for estrogen creme for her vagina at a minimum.

She also has the option to take estrogen orally (pills) or to get a time release estrogen patch or an estrogen creme for her body.

If she’s having mood swings, hormone headaches, hot flashes, night sweats, trouble remembering things AND her introitus (opening to her vaginal canal) is sensitive, estrogen will help immensely.

Note: The studies that linked estrogen replacement to cancer have been discredited, but the news only reports on sensation bullcrap, so even doctors are woefully out of touch with current thinking.

If her doctor isn’t up to speed on HRT — hormone replacement therapy — get a new doctor.

When estrogen dips, the vaginal tissue can feel like there’s ground glass in it when you touch it.

Try not stroking the skin of her vaginal tissue, and instead putting your attention on stroking her subcutaneous tissue. Lower the friction, increase to her liking the pressure below her skin, on her body.

A DO Date does not actually require that you go inside her vagina. So on the days she’s sore, just do the clitoral strokes.

SLAM DUNK COME FEST

So if you take the time to get her engorged, follow the DOing steps use plenty of lube, send your intention into her body without a lot of skin friction and you are in a comfortable position where you can stay on her spot when you find it… the only thing left is to bring your masculine energy to the whole date.

Are you getting her turned on? Talking sexy? Moving her body around? Telling her how much you love her and how sexy she is?

When you lead her so she can relax into your strokes… when she can ride your ride… it’s going to be incredible!

I’m so proud of you and your wife for taking on an Expanded Orgasm practice.

Yay for you!

You two will have hot sex now for the rest of your lives with this practice.

Honestly, John, it makes me feel so fulfilled to see how your passion together is blossoming again.

I could cry in gratitude that our work is helping couples re-ignite and go deeper into more intimacy and eroticism together.

Keep me up to date on your progress and let me know if you get stuck.

I Celebrate You!

Get a free ebook from Tallulah, The Truth and Myths About Female Ejaculation here. And here are three free pleasure reports from Dr. Patti bout Touching For Rapture, The Power of Peaking and What Is Expanded Orgasm. You get the first one in email, then a few days later the next, then the next. Read them as you get them to understand more about what John’s doing with his wife in this email.

All is well with John and his wife.

“Susan, Thank you so much for your full of detail response. My wife feels well taken care of. It was her urethra opening as far as we can tell, but it really makes sense that over doing the opening strokes was the problem. She’s was fine the next day. Thanks again, John”

Please forward one of our great emails to a friend or two. We grow to support more lovers through referrals from you.

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“Well presented access to the kind of sex you’d love to have.” — Raj Sundra

She had a “whole new category” of orgasm! “The best and most unusual orgasm I ever had!”

Raj says, “we just had a non-linear JUMP in our sex life.”

Gaby and Raj are relationship coaches who’ve been together 10 years.
They are committed to having “the best-ever sex” every year.

RELATIONSHIP FUN & GAMES

Relationship Coach Has “Best Orgasm Ever” After Watching This <=== Watch Steamy As Soon As Tonight

When they make love, they do a “Romp Recap” 24 hours after.

They score themselves on a scale of one to ten on three variables:

– Intimacy
– Sexiness
– Technique

After watching Steamy Sex Ed, they scored 10’s across the board.

A Triple Double!

“Best EVER Sex.”

CONNECTED EROTIC COUPLES

Gaby says, “Even the titles are kind of a turn on. They are very sexy. It’s like Kama Sutra meets connected erotic video. The antidote to pornography.

Relationship Coaches Has Best Orgasm Ever After Watching Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection <=== I Want This!

Playful Peaceful Passionate,
Susan

P.S. Gaby also says, “Steamy Sex Ed erases any shame without any awkwardness.”

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Also reverses penile atrophy!

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“Vaginal orgasm advice also reverses penile atrophy!”

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Recently I had dinner with my friends Ray and Lenore and the conversation (as it does when you party with a sex educator) turned to sex.

Lenore can’t have orgasms from intercourse. Penetration doesn’t get her off. This is VERY common and creates a situation where sex just isn’t that good for her, so she wants less and less over time.

But I have a solution for you! Read on…

SEX OUT OF DUTY, NOT DESIRE?

As we sat by the fire after dinner, Lenore shared with us that “70% of the time” she has intercourse with Ray just to keep him from being too cranky to live with.

Though they laughed about it with us, I know that there is a deep, underlying pain that comes with giving more than she’s getting. That’s mercy sex.

When a woman has sex with a man and doesn’t herself have an orgasm, it takes its toll on her libido, her satisfaction and her sexual confidence.

And for those men whose partners submit to mercy sex, it’s often a living hell for them.

Men live to give their women incredible pleasure. It’s wired into guys. If he satisfy her, she will willingly come back.

This is why men love it when the woman initiates or asks for sex. Then he knows she desires him.

But when she has sex out of duty, or to keep him from being cranky, there’s a lot of potential pleasure left on the table.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s NOT anyone’s fault. The women who give their men consistent intercourse are wonderful, caring, attentive lovers.

And often women won’t LET their partners have enough access to them to to help them learn how to have vaginal orgasms through intercourse.

So he ends up masturbating inside her, instead of it being a two-way pleasure experience.

THIS SUCKS.

It sucks for him.

It sucks for her.

And countless couples get caught in a habit that is unrewarding and think, “this is just how it is with us.”

Listen, 99.99% of women CAN orgasm from intercourse, IF conditions are right.

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THE #1 CONDITION IS ENGORGEMENT

And the #1 condition is ENGORGEMENT.

Once a woman’s genitals are ripe and full of blood from stroking, licking and rubbing, you could be a complete klutz and she’d probably have an orgasm.

It’s putting the time into foreplay, into massaging her vulva, her clitoris, up in her vagina — both her perineal and urethral (G-Spot) sponges — as well as getting her relaxed and turned on with sexy talk and kissing, breast play and overall sensual touching.

The best part about getting a woman engorged is that it builds on itself, like working out a muscle.

The more you engorge her, the easier it is to get her engorged.

The more you engorge her, the faster she gets aroused each time.

The more you engorge her, the more engorged she stays between lovemaking sessions.

Engorgement builds on itself. This is one of the foundations of the upward pleasure spiral, where sex just keeps getting better.

IF YOU WANT TO COME FROM INTERCOURSE

Get a copy of the Steamy Sex Ed video collection and start educating yourself about what strokes and techniques look interesting to you.

Discuss. Point. Make a list… Just start trying more techniques to engorge your genitals.

By the way, engorgement works on men to strengthen their penis, remove penile atrophy from lack of use.

A man’s penis can be thicker, stronger, longer, firmer and get and stay hard better with frequent genital suckling and manual stimulaion.

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3 Sure Fire Ways To Orgasm During Lovemaking

1. Believe you can orgasm from intercourse
2. Learn new techniques so you can get engorged
3. Make sure your man’s penis can “go the distance” to give you those orgasms by giving him genital massages and oral pleasure to remove atrophy

There Is No Try, Only Do,
Susan

P.S. Yes, Steamy is explicit — handsome couples are demonstrating what to do. But it’s heart-connected, eye-connected, turned on lovemaking, NOT porn.

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“I couldn’t orgasm from intercourse.”

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Once she can come from intercourse. . .

(Guys, read this so you can give your woman multiple orgasms during intercourse.)

Ladies,

There’s something magical about your sex life when you can climax during intercourse. For years and years I couldn’t orgasm while being penetrated and I felt like a sexual failure.

I desperately wanted my man to be able to make me come when he was inside me, but as soon as he penetrated me it took me down, instead of up.

COME WHEN HE PENETRATES YOU

With a good genital massage* to get me fully engorged, I can now FINALLY have multiple orgasms during intercourse.

But I wish I’d had these Steamy Sex Ed DVD’s years ago!

Being able to surrender to my bliss while my man is delivering incredible pleasure to me is a beautiful, tender, connected and profound experience.

Having multiple climaxes while he’s inside me is the pinnacle of lovemaking experiences for me.

And yet it’s so elusive for so many women.

EROTIC TOUCH FOR SEXUAL POSITIONS

On the Steamy Sex Ed DVD Collection called, “Erotic Touch for Sexual Positions,” a number of techniques to help a woman orgasm during intercourse are showcased including:

- Form a “V” with your fingers and press on your mons while you pull up to expose your clitoris. Then pull to the beat as he’s pumping in and out.

- Press the sides of your outer labia together and squeeze his penis between them. Massage your labia in a circular motion as you luxuriate in his thrusting.

- Have him pull his penis out and tap, tap, tap the head on your clitoris. Alternately have him rub the head across your clitoris with a windshield wiper motion. Then have him re-enter.

These are just of few of the techniques demonstrated by these handsome couples.

LISTEN TO NARRATION OR MUSIC

You can listen to the music track as you watch them or you can turn on the voice track where the sensual sexologist explains what they are doing so you can easily recreate the experience together.

On this DVD alone, and there are 8 in the collection, there are abundant ideas including:

- Have him place his thumbs on each side of your clitoral shaft and match his pumping with stroking your shaft

- Reach around and tap his sacrum and contract your PC muscles

- Delay his ejaculation by circling your thumb and forefinger around his testicles and move them away from his body

- Alternate the above with pressing in or massaging his perineal area with circles while he slows down and breathes

- Having him use different clitoral strokes shown on the video while you’re in various doggie style positions

- Have him gather your hair in his hand while he penetrates you from behind (HOT!)

- You ride him reverse cowgirl while he twiddles, paddles and thumbs circles around your well-lubed rosebud

OVER 200 TECHNIQUES

And these are just a sampling of the techniques on one of the eight educational and erotic videos.

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Here is a picture of me holding up my iPad while the Genital Massage For Men video is playing.

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To Your Steamy Sex Life,
Susan

* Genital massage for men and for women are two of the titles in the collection. Plus: Female Self Pleasuring is a digital bonus for buyers of the DVD’s.

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Interesting story…

Ever wonder why women are multi-orgasmic and men are “one and done?”

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“Now our lovemaking is dramatically and radically different. In 30 minutes you can’t count how many orgasms there are for both of us.” — Camery

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Why would a woman care about men’s orgasms? Because when he has “ejaculatory choice” which means, when he can control when he ejaculates, he can last long enough to relax and be present with you during lovemaking… instead of thinking of his grandmother or baseball scores to keep from coming too fast.

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On this workshop we’re teaching men, women and couples the “ME Breath” Technique. This breathing/pelvic rocking technique trains his body to have as many full body orgasms as he wants (and it’s doable for men from their 30’s to 90’s)… and it feels as good as ejaculating to him the whole time you’re having sex.

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Kills the mood and I go limp. HELP!

Here’s an email from James who is stuck in a sexual dynamic that is making him lose his erection. EASY FIX!

(The peanut butter and jelly of love… get her to squirt, keep him from squirting until he’s ready to.)

Susan –

Love your emails and your programs. Top notch!!

Quick question. Why does my girlfriend always “have to pee” mid sex? Is there a logical explanation for this? Also, is there a way to fix this? It kills the mood and my dick usually goes limp afterward.

Let me know. Thanks!

Take care,
James

James has a potentially good squirter on his hands…

Find and stroke her G-Area to engorge it and get it to come out to play.

Then you can trigger her ejaculatory orgasms.

Get Tallulah’s free report: The Truth and Myths About Female Ejaculation

Here is a link to our Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men program by Jim Benson that shows you a demonstration of the “squeeze-breath-thrust” technique any guy can use to get hard, stay hard and last as long as you want… even if she gets up to pee or squirts all over you!

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This week I’ve been pointing you to a wealth of details about how women get more pleasure when their genitals are fully engorged… which means filled with blood… like a “hard on” for her.

Sometimes women feel like their clitorises get overly sensitive or fatigued and this holds her back from having more orgasms.

MORE ORGASMS MORE PLEASURE

Some women also think one orgasm is enough… but they just haven’t learned the joys of being multi-orgasmic. And the key is in her being properly engorged.

Here are two articles on this issue of clitoral sensitivity:

(Don’t miss the video of the 3D Clitoris!)

♥ Clitoral Fatigue And The Case For A DO Date <=== Click Here>
♥ Clitoral Sensitivity Preventing Multiple Orgasms <=== Click Here>

A woman’s body needs a 20-30 minute warm up before intercourse.

Learning how to engorge her genitals means she’ll have a more pleasurable experience and want to have more sex more often.

Engorgement is the key to the most pleasure for the woman.

Please comment below the articles with your thoughts.

Don’t miss the other articles:

The Female Erection Explained (Engorgement 1 of 4)

How To Give Her Orgasms From (Engorgement 2 of 4)

Find Her “SPOT” Every Time (Engorgement 4 of 4)

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Don’t miss the charts that show multiple orgasms, vs. expanded orgasms below.

Greetings Dear One!

Many women’s vaginal tissues are delicate to the point where they can’t have as much intercourse as they’d like. This is actually caused by a lack of stimulation and blood flow to the area. Sometimes it comes from a lack of sex – no partner, illness, many reasons… Sometimes from hormonal fluctuations where the tissue isn’t getting enough estrogen – especially during menopause.

What ever causes this delicacy, it all falls under the category of tissue atrophy. And this situation can be reversed quite easily with what I like to call, “a vaginal rejuvenation spa treatment.”

What I’m really saying is we gals need frequent genital massages of our vulval tissues… Rubbing and stroking causes the blood to flow to the area.

For a woman who’s vulva is sometimes fragile the #1 thing that helps her tissue become more resilient and able to enjoy the friction of coitus is genital massage.

If you’re her lover, you can give her this exquisite pleasure.

If you are the lady whose genitals require careful handling, you can ask your lover for this special treat.

Here’s what you do to make a Vaginal Rejuvenation Spa experience.

First, arrange yourselves comfortably on the bed in the Expanded Orgasm “DO Position.”

Have some warmed organic coconut oil and towels ready.

Start massaging her belly and thighs. Then, slowly work your way in toward her vestibular bulbs and mons pubis.

You want to give your guy a lot of feedback about speed and pressure, ladies.

Every time he gives you this Vaginal Rejuvenation Spa massage experience you’re going to want different strokes, so just guide him to what feels best in each moment.

Guys, your goal is to get her vulva all loose and almost gelatinous feeling.

Think about making the skin all around the outside of her vulva like wiggly jello.

As she relaxes and loosens up, you can ask her to invite your fingers inside.

If her vaginal canal feels like it has ridges, or it’s hard rather than supple, just slowly, slowly, slowly work on the tissue until it is pliable.

The more you do this massage, the more engorged her genitals will be.

Having engorged genitals will make intercourse feel marvelous and will make a woman more easily orgasmic as well.

And though you are welcome to return the favor to your guy, because massaging his genitals has the same positive effect of bringing blood flow, engorging his erectile tissue and helping him have more erectile function…

I don’t recommend that the Vaginal Rejuvenation Spa massage be a “quid pro quo.”

Don’t make it a tit-for-tat. Avoid the idea that he does you and then you do him.

Why?

If you have to DO him after he’s gotten you all relaxed, you won’t be able to surrender to the pleasure completely.

Try and separate these massage experiences.

That way he won’t be giving you this genital massage to “get sex.” It takes the pressure off of you two.

There are seven nights in every week.

Why not make one night a 30-minute Vaginal Rejuvenation Spa appointment for her?

And then he can anticipate another night where he gets a genital massage of his manhood?

The goal is not to have orgasms. The intention is to bring blood flow and health to your tissue.

This will build on itself and increase your turn on for each other without any pressure.

EXPANDED ORGASM COMES NEXT

If you want to take your body to the next level of sensual pleasure, I highly recommend Expand Her Orgasm Tonight.

This is a stroking technique that allows a lover to bring a woman to an ever-increasing level of orgasmic pleasure.

Expanded Orgasm has been called, “The 30 Minute Orgasm.”

Essentially how it works is the clitoral stroke is so light and right on the perfect spot that a woman can have a series of stacking, ever-expanding orgasms all linked in a row like a flight of stair steps.

Instead of one climax, you as a the woman have many easy orgasms that all feel linked together.

Here’s what Multiple Orgasms look like:

MULTIPLE ORGASMS

Here’s what Expanded Orgasms look like:

EXPANDED ORGASMS

There are videos which show you the strokes inside Expand Her Orgasm Tonight.

There are also 21 Sandbox Dates — twenty one couples “exercises” for sexual learning dates. (Take three weeks or three years to do them… no hurry… they all add to your lovers’ skills as a couple.)

If you and your partner are a couple who will do these Vaginal and Manhood Rejuvenation Spa massages together, then you would also benefit from doing the 21 couples Sandbox dates together.

You can go here and learn all about how Expanded Orgasm works.

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight <=== 30 Minute Orgasm From Unique Clitoral Stroke

If your man loves to stroke you… If you are a woman who is comfortable receiving incredible pleasure…

You will like having an Expanded Orgasm practice together.

And you know what?

The best thing about sex is that it always gets better.

The more you learn, the more you know, the more pleasure you have.

So check out Expanded Orgasm as a possible new experience you can have.

And feel free to email me any questions at all about the massage, the Expanded Orgasm practice, anything!

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Open up to discover the delicious double entendre.

Don’t miss the charts that show multiple, vs. expanded orgasms below.

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Here’s an email from Daavi in Norway asking about Expanded Orgasm:

“Dear Dr. Patti,

First the good news! After 5 children and almost 20 years of marriage, with your advice about “ Finding Her Spot” inside your Expand Her Orgasm Tonight program I have finally been able to consistently locate my wife’s clitoris!

Thank you for all the advice you have given me over the last 7 years. There were times when I would give up in misery. But you never stopped answering my questions. Here is another…

Do you call your technique Expanded Orgasm just because the clitoral strokes you teach give a woman a really long orgasm or is the meaning more that it is a ‘spiritual practice?’

Your Friend And Devoted Follower,

Daavi”

EXPANDED ORGASM IS A PRACTICE

Dear Daavi,

Good job! Yes, Expanded Orgasm is both a series of very long, ever-increasing in intensity orgasms AND it is a spiritual practice a couple does together. You have discovered my double entendre. It is a double meaning and a play on words.

A couple can have DO Dates (what we call the Expanded Orgasm stroking sessions) together for the rest of their lives and it keeps getting better and better feeling.

To better understand exactly what Expanded Orgasms are, I’ll contract it with other kinds of orgasms.

What is Expanded Orgasm?

Let’s start with “Regular Orgasm”—the type you’re probably most familiar with.

Okay, What is a Regular Orgasm?

Regular Orgasm is the “typical” male orgasm, though most women experience this type of orgasm, too, though it may take longer than it does for a man, and women often like to experience a longer climb with more plateaus.

In Regular Orgasm, the experience is focused in the genitals, ending with a kind of explosion or intense climax with 8 to 10 contractions of the pelvic muscles. These contractions are about a second apart, and are usually intensely pleasurable.

The famous sex researches from the 60s, Masters and Johnson, described four stages of Regular Orgasm.

These four stages have some interesting names:

• Excitement
• Plateau
• Orgasm
• Resolution

Here’s a diagram to help you visualize these phases.

You can see that the amount (level) of arousal (sexual pleasure and interest) increases with stimulation (time), climbs to a plateau, then climaxes, and finally declines (usually pretty quickly, especially in men).

In the excitement phase, you see signs of arousal starting to happen, like increasing vaginal lubrication – that’s when she starts getting wet! This is when a man becomes hard (engorged). The pleasure can build slowly at first, and then accelerates.

In the plateau phase, you see changes in heart rate and respiration—so that’s where all the breathing intensifies…. The woman becomes engorged (her vaginal lips and those deeper places become swollen with blood. Some men start to “leak” clear somewhat sticky fluid at this point. In Regular Orgasm, the arousal keeps building, reaching a “point of inevitability”—a point of no return….

Then there’s the orgasm phase which is self-explanatory and I’ve already described the typical 8 to 10 second climax. Sometimes (especially if there’s been lots of foreplay and time to build arousal) this kind of climax can seem to fill the whole body with massive and pleasurable release.

And in the resolution phase you have rapid relaxation and a drop in blood pressure, slowing breathing, and other signs of decreasing arousal. The engorgement fades quickly (more quickly, usually for men). People differ in their responses to this phase—some like to cuddle, some prefer quiet time by themselves, or to drift into a reverie or sleep.

Picture a Regular Orgasm like climbing a mountain… you climb, enjoy the peak briefly, and then come down the other side.

Multiple Orgasms and Extended Orgasms

In a Multiple Orgasm, the woman receives genital stimulation, has a Regular Orgasm, mmmm, it feels really good, too! Then, she starts down the other side of the mountain … but not all the way, and then she starts climbing up again. She can then experience another climax, or peak. Yum! She will have two or more peaks and when she is done coming, she’ll return all the way down the other side of the mountain (the resolution phase). Some men can experience Multiple Orgasms, too, but usually when they’re young ‘n horny (though many men can learn Multiple Orgasm with proper training from Jim Benson and his Multi-Orgasmic Lover program).

Here is a diagram of Multiple Orgasm.

Now, in Extended Orgasm when a woman reaches the peak of the experience, she stays there, having a prolonged orgasmic climax. She is literally “hanging out at the edge.” Her moment of climax stretches out in time.

Think of Extended Orgasm as an orgasm in which a woman stays in the over-the-edge state for longer than the typical 8 or 10 seconds.  There may be some fluctuation in intensity and/or sensation… an Extended Orgasm can last for 20 seconds, a minute, or even several minutes.

Now let’s look at a diagram of Extended Orgasm.

It’s a little challenging to do Extended Orgasm justice with a diagram. Imagine that plateau wavering, maybe climbing to a new plateau before going “over the edge.”

I’m sure you will agree, these are all wonderful types of orgasm. By the way, you can learn more about these types of orgasm in the video tutorials in my Expand Her Orgasm Tonight! The 21-Day Program for Partners.

OK, I’m Ready to Learn About Expanded Orgasm!

An Expanded Orgasm will often include one (or more) of the above types of orgasms, but… it has both profound and delicious characteristics that go far beyond.

First, in these non-expanded orgasms that I just described, the main dimension is time.

An Expanded Orgasm is an experience that happens in both time and space.  In Expanded Orgasm, you are expanding the pleasure you feel in your genitals into the entire space of your body, through your mind, into the dimension of your emotions, and into the expanding of your awareness.

These mounting feelings of bliss spill out into your partner, into the space around you, and into your very spirit.

In Expanded Orgasm, you have the sense of a cup filling up, and at the very same time, the cup is growing to the size of a coliseum … with energy currents running from head to toe. It’s as if your very body has enlarged enormously, and all of it is filled to spill-over with profound erotic pleasure.

Here is a diagram of Expanded Orgasm:

The climbing thick wavy line conveys how arousal keeps getting higher and higher—much higher in fact than in Regular Orgasm. There are many plateaus followed by more climbing. But as I said, Expanded Orgasm happens not only in time, but also in space! The dotted wavy lines are intended to illustrate the Expanded Orgasm experience of expanding way out in space. In Expanded Orgasm you have a sense of not only filling your body with great pleasure, but of making a larger body to fill.

I’d like to give you a sense of what it takes to create these mind blowing orgasms. As your partner stimulates you—puts pleasurable attention on you—you can spread the rising pleasure energy through your body. One way to do this is to breathe it up and through your whole body, as you relax more and more into the feeling. I call this “falling into climbing.” It’s a kind of surrender to pleasure.

You can also learn to spread orgasmic sensations through your emotional being, opening your heart to feelings as they arise, as you relax into them. Not only is this incredibly pleasurable, but it’s a wonderful and powerful way for you to connect with each other.

Your awareness goes very deeply into the richness of the current moment, and then expands to the deepest reaches of the galaxy. In this state, people report moving and profound experiences.

I explain all about how to give and receive Expanded Orgasms in my program, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight: 21 Day Program for Partners.

There are 21 couples exercises where you learn various aspects of experiencing this expanded orgasm state.

There are a whole series of videos that show the exact stroke techniques to give a woman this expanded orgasmic pleasure.

There are audio interviews and dialogs where you can listen to stories of expanded orgasmic pleasure.

And there are print-at-home books that guide you through the learning.

This is, at it’s essence, a clitoral stroke method that gives women longer, more pleasurable multiple orgasms.

And who doesn’t want to give and/or receive that!?!

You can get a free report from me called, How Expanded Orgasm Can Take Your Life To The Next Level — And Beyond.

Go ahead and download the book and read through it to understand more about this incredible couples practice that lasts for a lifetime of joy and intimacy.

Dr. Patricia Taylor

Creator of Expand Her Orgasm Tonight, Seduce Her Tonight, The Seduction Accelerator, Her Sexual Trainer, and the best-selling book, Expanded Orgasm.

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Advanced intercourse technique increases orgasmic pleasure.

Here’s a quick 4-minute video where I explain the benefits of the intercourse penis stroke that Jim Benson teaches in his Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men program.

The hip drop stroke is an alternative to what most men do when they are having intercourse.
I describe what most men do as the “porn piston.” They pump straight in and out.

The thrust that Jim demonstrates inside Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men feels incredible inside a woman’s vagina. It is one of the reasons this “squeeze-breathe-thrust” technique for stamina and heart-connection is so beloved by women. This stroke gets her G-Spot and perineal tissue erect inside her vagina for more intense orgasmic pleasure.

Watch The Video ==> The ME Breath Benefits for HER THE THRUST BENEFITS

Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men is a series of 5 videos that teach a guy how to do the squeeze (two kinds of PC pumps), the breathe (manages his arousal levels) and the thrust (relaxes his pelvis while delivering this hip drop stroke that engorges her vagina trigger her most intense orgasms.

This is a move that automatically lets him make love for as long as he wants to and delivers incredible pleasure to her.

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We humans are fascinated by sex positions. And because of our individual “body dynamics,” each couple has a completely unique experience based on their height, length, flexibility and the emotions they carry about a particular position.  For example, when I mention “doggy style,” is the first thing you think, “How big does my butt look in this position?” If so, you are not alone. And I encourage you to surrender yourself to your pleasure and forget how your butt looks. Trust me, your lover appreciates your butt.

Trying new sex positions keeps variety in your sex life. Variety is one of the two attributes required for you to continue to be excited about sex. The other is safety. The combination of equal parts variety, or novelty with safety allow you to both relax and enjoy new ways of making love.

Generally (and everyone is unique) men crave sex in many positions. Women report to me that they are less likely to want to deviate from their “favorite” position. They like to stick with their go-to position because it’s familiar territory and increases their chance of having an orgasm.  Over time, as you get more confident that you can orgasm with your partner, you can learn to orgasm in new positions.

There are only 6 possible sex position permutations ― so everything is derivative of these six areas of endless possibility. The position you choose is affected by many aspects including what “parts” you’re stimulating. In the sex positions below, the Chingalinga stimulates the erectile tissue in your throat so you can enjoy throatgasms during oral pleasuring. Squirty Shower stimulates the G-Area for female ejaculation. You can also factor in the location when deciding what position to assume. Look how appealing that dining room table is!

Keep in mind what you desire in your “loverspace.” If you’re wearing lingerie or a costume for role play that also impacts how you might like to position yourself. Toys are yet another consideration. Can you get the toy “in there” with a potential position?

Other sex position considerations include:

State of mind: Do you have a lover who is proud of her body and in good shape? Let’s showcase her!

Do you or your partner have any physical frailties that limit your ability to move around? Factor that in and grab lots of pillows.

If you’re looking for positions that allow long, luxurious lovemaking sessions… again, use pillows to prop yourselves into restful positions.

How about a position where he starts out soft and she enjoys warming him up slowly?

And don’t forget a special position for really WET sex if she’s an ejaculator…

Listen to Susan Bratton, trusted hot sex advisor to millions on this interview as she explains the nuances of these clever positions that make it incredibly erotic for you both.

Creative Sex Positions For Highly Erotic Lovemaking

• Headboard Daddy (extra fun for breast play and stimulates three key areas for her pleasure)
• Chingalinga (guaranteed to get her an orgasm while she’s orally pleasuring you)
• Taoist Thrusting (an ancient Chinese sexual technique for intercourse that will amp her turn on massively)
• Off The Edge Of The Bed With A Vibrator (expanded orgasm with intercourse)
• Yab Yum (Tantric lovers’ position that generates a masculine/feminine polarity that increases rapture)
• Squirty Shower (she’s on top with a special move that showers you with Amrita)

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Scot McKay of X&Y Communications and creator of Female Persuasion interviewed Susan Bratton about creative sex positions. 45 minutes of unleashed imaginative audio featuring new, sexy positions to try!

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Guys, I’m writing this for the ladies but you will find it interesting too.

True Story of a “Sacred Spot Release.”

Have you heard of a “Goddess Massage?” It’s a beautiful gift for any woman to receive. And anyone can learn to give their woman this profoundly healing and sensually awakening experience.

WHAT IS A GODDESS MASSAGE?

I recently had a Goddess Massage, which is a full body massage that includes orgasms if you want them.

I wanted them.

There is a sexual healing modality called, “Sacred Spot Release.”

Essentially a massage therapist — who can be male or female — relaxes you, gives you a genital massage and is trained in the art of G-Spot acupressure.

This acupressure and stimulation of the G-Area can release a lot of emotions for a woman.

Massaging this area up inside her vagina can be a profoundly healing experience. But at first can produce tears or other emotional releasing behaviors.

We store emotions like shame, upset, fear, grief… in the tissue in that area of the body.

For men, the prostate is similar.

HOW DOES THIS HEAL SEXUALITY?

As the emotions release out of the area through experienced touching, palpations and pressure, a woman can release any painful sexual experiences she may have had in the past. With slow, tender ministrations, the area will heal, allowing her sexual power and confidence to emerge.

I’ve been going through some emotional processing about sexual and emotional abuse I sustained as a child. It rears its head every decade or so and I realize how much that old trauma still runs my reactions to my life. So I re-examine the experience and how it’s affecting me at various stages of my life.

MY GODDESS MASSAGE DESCRIBED

This time around a friend told me about Lowell, a Goddess Massage expert in San Diego.

I booked an appointment. Lowell showed up with a foot bath and massage table and here’s what happened…

He had me sit in a chair and put my feet in an electric foot bath with warm water. As it bubbled and relaxed me, Lowell set up his massage table. Then he sad beside me and talked to me. “What’s been going on?” “How are you feeling about your Goddess Massage?” “Is there anything you want to ask me or tell me?

We chatted and he dried off my feet and helped me on to the table face down. My body was draped and he ran his hands up and down my whole body.

His touch felt great…. Nurturing and kinda sexy….

He used organic coconut oil and soon had my neck, back, butt, legs and feet relaxed. At first it felt a little foreign to have him rubbing my ass. He asked if I liked my butt rubbed and I said, Yes. He could feel my hesitation. It was just me getting used to him touching me. As I relaxed, he slid his well-oiled fingers down my butt cheeks and gently massaged my labia from behind. He melted me into the table as he told me how sweet I was, how nice and strong my body was, and how he was fine with anything that happened for me emotionally. He let me know it was safe for me to just let myself go.

HOW I ACTIVELY ADDRESSED MY SEXUAL WOUNDING

So I thought a lot about the abuse I suffered. I felt sorry for the little, defenseless girl who was probed and punched. I tried to imagine who I was before those horrible experiences that occurred for a decade before I could get free, get away.

I thought about how my body is ok. How I am ok. How my abuser was worse off than I, being born into the circumstances that created his meanness, his sexual deviant behavior. I forgave him again. No sense being bitter if you can let it go. I keep letting it go.

I asked Lowell to massage my adrenals. It’s my nervous system that holds the trauma. He beamed love from his hands into my adrenals as I breathed vitality into them.

Lowell kept reminding me to breathe all through the massage.

Tears flowed but they were the tears of relief.

I’m fine. I’m ok. I’m letting go the upset.

Once he felt I’d processed my grief enough for the little girl who never deserved to be sexually violated, beaten, and disrespected he had me flip over onto my back.

I had some water and laid back down.

WHEN IT STARTED TO FEEL SENSUAL

And he started on my front. He oiled my tummy, my breasts, my genitals… He stroked my sternum and then he started a rhythm from my breasts to my tummy to my genitals — up and down — down and up. With each successive path becoming more sensual.

He reminded me to breathe.

And then he opened my legs and propped them on pillows.

And he fully massaged my vulva, starting as a professional, from the outside and working his way slowly in.

He asked if it was ok to enter my vagina with one finger.

I said yes. It felt good… His touch felt safe…

Never for a second did I feel like Lowell was trying to do anything other than give my body the pleasuring loving orgasmic release that reboots a woman’s nervous system.

He did all kinds of moves on my pussy.

(The more strokes you know, the more sensual healing you can provide when you give your Goddess a massage.)

He reapplied lube when needed.

He opened me.

I opened myself to him.

WHAT WAS HIS G-SPOT TECHNIQUE?

And he spent a lot of time massaging my G-Spot in ways that only trained professionals or lovers who have studied vulva stroking and erotic massage techniques know how to do.

Your typical dude just sticks his fingers in and treats them like a penis. Friction. In and out. Out and in. Using the same old piston motion he learned watching porn…

A guy who has studied the G-Spot and “She-Jaculation” (female ejaculation) will go so far as to use the come hither, or windshield wiper moves.

But Lowell knew what he was doing.

He has worked on a lot of women’s G-Areas.

He knew the right pressure to create that melting feeling that only comes with G-Area touch.

As he stroked and pressed I just let go.

No, I didn’t squirt.

But I still got all the benefits of a Sacred Spot massage.

I processed my emotions. He rubbed them away.

Yes, I had some orgasms.

But that wasn’t “the goal.”

The goal was to just let this marvelous man support me in working through some tragedies of my past that keep hindering my life in sneaky ways.

HOW DO I HAVE THIS EXPERIENCE MYSELF?

Teach your boyfriend or husband how to do this for you.

Looking back on the experience, it is very similar to what my husband does to me. He learned all these techniques from Steamy Sex Ed, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight and Female Liquid Orgasm.

My Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection shows you how to do a Sacred Massage.

Volume 1 lets you watch or follow along with a 1 hour sensual massage.

That gets her all relaxed and open to your touch.

Volume 3 teaches you orgasmic genital massage for women.

Between the two you can begin to give your lady — or have your partner if you are a woman — a Goddess Massage.

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Being able to be a woman’s sexual healer just takes knowing about 20 massage techniques and having time together exploring how she needs her G-Area touched to feel the release.

You can definitely ejaculate with this kind of massage. But it’s not in any way required. Nor does the actual squirting impact the release that is possible when your urethral sponge area is stimulated. Squirting doesn’t “make it better.” Squirting is just a facet of the release. If it happens, great. If not, you’re just not ready nor comfortable enough.

I didn’t squirt when Lowell massaged my urethral sponge (G-Spot) and I still had a wonderful experience.

Later that night I had sex with my husband and really let go. I squirted like crazy. That’s because I’m comfortable with him.

Every woman should have her pussy massaged regularly… Like a couple times a week if possible!

Between the emotional release and the engorgement of her tissues, Goddess Massages are a great sexual maintenance tool and a beautiful way to bond as a couple.

If you can learn together and also try giving him a prostate massage while you stroke his cock, you two will keep your equipment in good working order.

There is a Genital Massage for men as well as Anal Massage for men as part of the Steamy Sex Ed Video Collection which includes prostate massage techniques she can do to him.

Pussy and cock massages and G-Spot and prostate massages are no big thing. You can literally do them while you’re in bed watching TV together. They are like a neck rub or a foot rub, things you can do to keep yourselves healthy.

The most important thing you can do is educate yourself. Learn some techniques. Watch the Steamy videos. Get the Expand Her Orgasm Tonight program…. aka “EHOT.” EHOT shows you how to do the lube strokes and the opening strokes, the bread & butter stroke and the closing stroke to a vulva massage. The twist on EHOT is that the clitoral stroke you learn actually stretches a woman’s orgasm out for minutes instead of seconds.

Or you can try Female Liquid Orgasm. That whole program is devoted to the G-Spot massage and squirting.

The more strokes you learn, the better G-Spot or Prostate healer you will become.

Watch an expert whose techniques you respect. But whatever you do, add to your knowledge. And don’t get your ideas from porn. Porn is degrading to women. According to Time Magazine, in a study of behaviors in popular porn, nearly 90% of 304 random scenes contained physical aggression toward women, who nearly always responded neutrally to positively regardless of how painful or debasing. That is because the $97 billion globe porn industry has one gaol: to get men off hard and fast for profit. So please, don’t touch your woman like a porn star. Learn healing, loving genital massage techniques from a trusted resource like our programs here at Personal Life Media.

YOU KNOW ME

Listen to what I’m telling you.

Learn some vulva massage techniques.

Steamy Sex Ed
Expand Her Orgasm Tonight
Female Liquid Orgasm

These are three options for you.

Try one.

And if you need anything just email me.

Questions?

I’m here.

But more women need their pussy’s massaged REGULARLY.

And if you can open her, release her, fill her up with orgasms, you will get all the cock appreciation you can imagine.

A turned on woman is turned on to life, turned on to you.

And no, oral doesn’t do it.

Fingering is the key.

Your fingers are considerably more articulate than your tongue.

If you are a woman who knows she needs this experience, I can tell you that men generally LOVE to give a woman a Goddess Massage.

Don’t be afraid to ask for one.

Teach your guy what you need.

And if you have a partner who has been abused in the past, or is reticent to have passionate intercourse, the Goddess Massage can get her vulva engorged and aroused in a way that is considerably more powerful than any other form of foreplay.

So go forth and massage, lovers!

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